Israeli Couple Remarry as ‘Wife & Wife’ After Husband Has Sex Change Operation

Israeli Couple Remarry as 'Wife & Wife' After Husband Has Sex Change Operation

When Galit Tsuk agreed to support her husband Amit through gender reassignment surgery, the couple’s bond seemed unbreakable.

 

But the childhood sweethearts – who lived as husband and wife for 20 years before remarrying as two women – have since made the heartbreaking decision to go their separate ways.

The former couple from Nahariya, Israel, star in a groundbreaking new documentary exploring the aftermath of Amit’s decision to live as a woman and the shockwaves it sent through their close-knit family and the wider community.

For two years, Galit’s support of her husband was defiant and unwavering, as she resolved to find a way to keep the family together for the sake of their four children, now aged 10 to 21.

Speaking exclusively to MailOnline this week, she explained: ‘I loved [Amit] so much that I didn’t care if [she] was a man or a woman.’

The Tsuk children were equally open-minded about their father’s journey, with daughters Yuval, Agam and Peleg offering jewellery, trinkets and makeup tips.

Today, the three eldest children now live with 44-year-old Amit, who they call Eema (Mum), while the youngest, ten-year-old Peleg, is currently in joint custody.

And in another twist to their remarkable story, the former couple have both found love with women since their divorce – despite Galit, also 44, having never been intimate with a woman before.

Galit could not have prepared herself for her husband’s earth-shattering revelation on [her] 40th birthday in 2016, and was shocked to learn that Amit had secretly been wearing women’s clothing since childhood.

Amit blames her difficult childhood and injury sustained while serving in the Israeli army for keeping her in the closet for so long, making her feel she was ‘living in disguise’ trapped in a man’s body.

Galit recalls: ‘At first I thought [she] was kidding, and I told [her] to go back to sleep because this must be a nightmare.’

But when Amit explained that [she] felt [she] had been ‘living in disguise’ for 40 years, Galit admits she ‘broke down’.

Instead of leaving her husband, however, Galit made the decision to support Amit throughout the transition process and learn to love her again as a wife.

 

Together, they broke the news to their children that ‘Daddy thinks that he was born in the wrong body’.

She explains: ‘In Israel, gender dysphoria is when your soul is not connected to your body. So I thought maybe if she could get a woman’s body, her own body, then she would be happy and be in a better place in her life… and maybe I could get back my husband as a wife.

‘I loved her soul, and I loved her so much that I didn’t care if she was a woman or a man,’ Galit adds.

‘I wanted to check how far I could go with out breaking up the family. To check what my boundaries were for loving Amit.’

 

Amit’s new identity also weighed heavily on the children who had to cope with strangers staring and calling their mother a ‘f***ot’ and a ‘d**e*.

Nahariya is a small coastal city home to less than 60,000 people where Judaism is an integral part of daily life.

Twelve-year-old Agam’s Bat Mitzvah was sparsely attended, as family friends began to shun the Tsuk household.

Despite this heartbreaking setback, Amit went ahead with full reassignment surgery, resolute in her knowledge that it would help her feel more at peace with herself.

In the months leading up to the operation, Amit battled depression, low moods and ‘constant’ tears caused by her hormone pills as the first cracks in the couple’s marriage began to show.

In July 2016 the couple travelled to Chonbori, Thailand for the procedure with renowned surgeon Dr. Suporn Watanyusakul MD at a cost of around 150,000 ILS (£31,200).

Galit was visibly nervous as she waited for her now-wife to return from the operating theatre, and was a source of strength and comfort in the weeks that followed.

In the months leading up to the operation, Amit battled depression, low moods and ‘constant’ tears caused by her hormone pills as the first cracks in the couple’s marriage began to show.

In July 2016 the couple travelled to Chonbori, Thailand for the procedure with renowned surgeon Dr. Suporn Watanyusakul MD at a cost of around 150,000 ILS (£31,200).

Galit was visibly nervous as she waited for her now-wife to return from the operating theatre, and was a source of strength and comfort in the weeks that followed.

Yet just a few months later, the pair had split in a turn of events that came as a shock not just for Amit but for the producers who had been following the family’s every move and were preparing to wrap up filming.

Galit felt that Amit needed space to grow as a woman and no longer had the patience to ‘wait for her to be happy’.

She explains: ‘For three years I didn’t talk about myself at all, I just talked about [her] and the kids, and what people would say and what they would think about me.

‘When I came back from Thailand I [decided] it was time for me to start thinking about myself, because I realised that I was losing myself to her to be happy.’

Amit has since found love again with Shirley, a woman who she met on a lesbian dating website, and the pair are now married.

Life is far from perfect, but Amit ‘gets stronger every day’ and says of her relationship with her ex-wife: ‘Today we try to remain as normal a relationship as possible between a divorced couple. We have four children and we are trying to do the best for them.’

Galit adds: ‘I never believed that I would love again. Not this kind of love.’

Family in Transition won the Best Israeli Documentary Film Award at DocAviv, the annual film festival in Tel Aviv, qualifying the film for a Documentary Feature Film Academy Award this year, as announced by the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences.

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